Gays and none other?

Gays in the military. I support one man and one woman as a traditional marraige and heres why.
The issue of gays in the military has come to the front line of issues. It seems that the gay agenda has gotten support from the President, he is going to push for gay people to openly serve in the military.
I say if you want gays in the military then you must also allow polyamorous relationships, poligamy, and any other deviation from the norm.
People will say "you can't help who you love", yet polygamist will tell you they love all their wives. Are you now going to tell them who they can love just because it's more than one?
What about those in a polyamorous relationship, is it their fault they like both men and woman and want to have one of each as a mate? Are you going to tell them who they can love?
Once again I support one man and one women (two women would just mean two women who are always mad at me).
I just wonder how the gay agenda can be brought to the front and the rest of them can't, why is one deviation from the norm ok and not the next?
Stability+Tradition=No Gays in the Military!